i got a haircut!

it's super short right now! o.O

btw, anyone coming to taipei over the summer? let me know!

hehe

happy birthday to me! :D

guess what

i downloaded AIM again so maybe that'll help me keep in touch with people. taipei is sometimes the center of everything and sometimes way out of the loop. how funny. i might go to cali over summer, not sure yet, but not many people will be in cupertino it seems! >"<

so..

no one may be reading this anymore but.. hey i can still write in it right?

sometimes a song would come up or i'd smell something and.. images of tino and of the past would suddenly flash before my eyes (i guess like they do when you die? huh....) . well, i really miss it there.

as much as i miss it there, though, there is nothing you can do but keep putting one foot in front of the other and just keep walking. city life USED to be my thing.. i don't know. living in taipei can be so stressful. everyday there's people people people EVERYWHERE! and you squish around and get bumped around and it's even worse when it rains. ugh. the population density in this city is just TOO MUCH!!!! gahhhh~~~~

today i almost suffocated crossing the street. every breath i took was a different smell, and every breath very very dirty air. bleh.

i miss everybody!

last night i discovered some SHOCKING news. but it's good, i guess. and now i realize you never know the true value of something until you lose it.

ah well. yes, life does go on. :)

taiwan is getting warmer and warmer now. it will be spring soon! yay. and if anyone still reads this tag or comment or something. i hope to go back to the u.s. during summer!

heyhey

it may be a bit late, but..

happy thanksgiving everybody! :)

wow do people still check this blog?

hey if you still read this give a holler by commenting! i need to decide if i wanna bring this thing back to life... eck.

woohoo

i'm coming to america!

new post

it's funny when i choose to turn to this thing.

well, i broke up with him. back to being just.. me. by myself.

actually i kind of forgot who i was. so maybe i should try to find it again. whatever.

haha

after a long time away, i'm back mr. blogger! it's not that i didn't want to blog in the month or so that i completely lost touch with you, but i just didn't know what to say because everything that happened has been so uniquely taiwanese!! :D and my english is becoming very very horrible so it is actually a bit embarrassing to post my horrible english out here on my dear bloggie.

anyway, updates! later today i'm going to hong kong with my mom because my VISA is going to expire at the end of this month. we're gonna go watch mamma mia!

what have i been doing lately mr. blog? i've been working at giraffe, half taking care of little kids learning english and half doing admin/receptionist work. here's giraffe's website: www.e-giraffe.com.tw!

and then there's one little secret thing that only chrissy knows about so far.. ^^ hehe but i will tell you mr. blog when the time is ripe. tata!

berkeley

wow long time no post. :(

there's an important test at the end of july that i have to take if i wanna tranfer/double-major, and starting from the beginning of august i have to prep for the freshmen camp activity and start welcoming new freshmen for fellowship. soooo......

i don't think i'm going to berkeley this summer. :( after all those planning and class scheduling and whatnot.

*sigh*

i'm becoming rather unsure on who reads my blog now. nevertheless, what's on here should be ok for everybody to read right? and i mean EVERYBODY.

facing a dilemma lately. ew this keyboard is sticky. anyway.. i seem to have this same problem over and over again! something must be going wrong in my brain for me to make the same mistake time after time. and i'm sure i have some, if not all, free will over these decisions i make. so why does it still happen? almost awe-stricken.

i'm so indecisive. or maybe it's just that i don't have enough faith. what's been happening doesn't exactly give me the faith i so need right now. i'm slipping.. and i can feel it. slipping away from it. slipping out of it. how do you slip out of it? i'm dumbfounded by the entire process, yet it is real, it is happening, it is happening to me.

and yet, i still don't understand it.

很愛很愛你 可是 也...

rot

maybe this is the way it always ends. yeah.. remember this?

The eyes are not here
There are no eyes here
In this valley of dying stars
In this hollow valley
This broken jaw of our lost kingdoms

In this last of meeting places
We grope together
And avoid speech
Gathered on this beach of the tumid river


i think it will end. for the first time, i can actually see it happen, like a little video clip being played inside my head. and then it's all over. not with a bang but a whimper.

it wasn't as grand as we thought it was.

here we go round the prickly pear? game over, it's time to go home. what used to be our passions became food leftover, lukewarm, lying lifeless on the table. waiting for itself to rot.

whatever, it wasn't supposed to mean anything in the first place, right? i'm tired..

and one more thing..

at NTU they seem to take delight in activities american kids do in elementary school. like they have show-and-tell during english class, and i think a spelling bee is coming up at the end of this month. who knows.

from berkeley to horrid novels written in the tang dynasty (charlton should i hold you partly responsible for this?)

whoa..! i got my student ID and pin number for my berkeley summer session classes, and guess what, they're exactly the same ones i got for when i was admitted to berkeley last year! and everything was still there, like my telebears account and everything!!! except that it said i had no classes, which was the only difference from when i last saw it. HAHA. what irony. and to think, when i clicked the "cancel registration" button i thought i'd never see these blue-and-yellow screens again.

it's funny, i still sort of feel like a berkeley student. i guess maybe somewhere deep down in the sentimental part of me, i still wished i had gone to berkeley? i don't know.. or maybe just knowing that i'd have a college to belong to whenever i go back is a comforting thought on its own. hmm. i love how i have some advantages of a berkeley student and yet, i'm not REALLY a berkeley student. like i have the cal student ID card (although it doesn't work when swiped, i remember last using it to buy bus tickets?). and like i mentioned before, tele-bears. and little things like the aman berkeley schedule planner. and little pieces of tidbits like the better food at crossroads, the rowdier crowd at the units, etc etc. everything makes me feel like i just veered off the right path by not going there.

it's even more annoying now that i have to do a huge chinese project and write an essay about a story written in the tang dynasty. -_____-;; oyyyyy.. the book i found in the library to help me actually looks like.. one of those artifacts you'd dig up. or back in the days when they used to write books using nice caligraphy and connect the pages together by tying it with a rope. and when i read my own writing, it feels like i went back in time to when i was in fourth or fifth grade, my first two years in the states, because it is freakin frustrating trying to express my thoughts exactly. not to mention typing in chinese is an even bigger pain. although i must brag a bit here, that my typing speed is already a lot faster than many of the students here, and THEY have been typing chinese for as long as they could type! muahahhaha... ^o^

*ahem* anyway, someone save me from this horrid, horrid chinese essay i must now go back to... wah.

quizzie, just like the old days

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you enjoy dancing writing and music. You are
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flying from one mutually exclusive thing to another

maybe it's because i know i can't ever become like those kinds of girls that they disgust me so much.

the school year isn't quite ending yet, but i'm already looking back on my first almost-year in taiwan. i've changed a lot. i don't know if it's because of taiwan, or college, or just simply gaining one more year of life experience. the changes are subtle, so subtle i almost didn't think they took place, until i had those talks with my mom.

whenever i'm with "new" people, i can convince myself that this is the way i've always been. but whenever i'm with "old" people, or "always-been" people, i convince myself i haven't changed out of my old ways either.

just like sylvia plath's esther, i am still flying back and forth between two mutually exclusive things. and this i will continue to do. whether i like it or not. and i do like it. i love it.

i love being weird. even if this means that people will start to understand me less and less. not weird as in unsociable. i think i will still keep the socializing part for all its useful and practical purposes, because i'm stupid about useful and practical and efficient things like that. but i feel as if the most real and pure and deepest part of me is starting to detach itself from all these useful and practical daily actions.

someone said, "speak your mind." but who said that is the only thing you should speak? i want to speak other people's minds. or i want to make up people's minds and then speak them. or i want to speak the exact opposite of what i really think. maybe there's some fun in that, too. or maybe i want to change my mind every so often. since i've given up on having people fully understand me (and who would want to be fully understood anyway? that's no fun), i'll do my best to have different people understand different shelleys. perhaps that is an easier task.

perhaps that's what i've always been doing, but only realized it just now. *shrug*

jing di zhe wa. translated literally it means frog of a well. it's used to describe (insultingly) people who have very narrow horizons, people who haven't seen enough and done enough in their lives. (i'm not sure if it includes the meaning of them being content with this lifestyle? maybe..) i'm sure these frogs are happy. i once wished, so very fervently, that i could be in a well and never come out. ignorance is bliss. i wanted to be happy. i wanted to be content. i wanted to never have to wonder if i'm "living it up." but now, having seen certain things in the past year, allow me to boldly (and perhaps, arrogantly) say that i have jumped out of the well.

and i'm not happy, now that my sky doesn't have edges enclosed by the walls of my well. but in a strange, ironic way, i'm happy about the fact that i know i'm not happy. perhaps happy is not an accurate word to describe this emotion. i should say content. i thought my "but.. why?" phase meant that i was not content with all that is given to me and that i kept a questioning mind toward everything i encountered. but now that i look back on it, it seems so naive and pointless and childish. it was only curiosity. curiosity is great, but it doesn't get you anywhere unless you start to search for answers. or unless you start to realize that answers aren't everything.

answers change.

or you can make up your own answers, as long as you look arrogant enough doing it. then they change the answer key and make your arrogant answer the right, standard one. or you can bubble in the answer you know will get you the point, but still maintain your own thoughts on the true answer for yourself.

and no one will ever have to know.

isn't that great? you can get an A+ without answering any of the questions right. as long as you bubbled in the right bubbles.

and no one will ever have to know.

yay yay yay!!!

christina is coming to taiwan! :D

hrm. that's NOT a secret, is it? haha.. :P

and as you all can see, there's still much work i need to do on this blog. AND my apartment, with its never-ending mess of clothes and books..... gah.

finished the bell jar. *brings tips of fingers together and brings them toward lips and makes a kissing noise* MUAH! loved it. i especially liked the part where she went, "I am, I am, I am."

it's gettin hot (in) here.

what could be more exciting to a blogger

...than NEW TEMPLATES!!!!

eeeeeeee!!!!!!!!! ^o^

i registered

hooray! although very unsure of what classes i'll actually be able to get into (partly my own fault, for not registering earlier), i am finally done with scheduling and registering for berkeley. here is my schedule for those who are curious.

i'll be in berkeley from july 4 (!) to aug 13. but not sure exactly when flights will be and stuff.

currently reading plath's the bell jar. it is so incredibly good. why didn't someone tell me to read this book earlier?!